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Seven out of ten of the top searched sex tourism phrases are found in Latin America and the Caribbean. I wish I could say I was surprised but I saw this practice firsthand during my travels to Latin America. The most jarring was in Utila, one of the Bay Islands of Honduras. The island was filled with blond, blue eyed Canadian, Australian, European and United States citizens on vacation who found a local to occupy their time in between scuba diving and extreme intoxication. I interviewed a few of the local men and they said it’s always been part of Utila. Their only options to attain a visa or to leave the country was to get a European, American or Canadian “girlfriend.” One Utilian spoke candidly that both parties knew exactly what they were looking for. He said “I would take them out, show them a good time, I’d climb a tree and bring them down a coconut, they really liked that.” Aside from the apparent exotification and sub-human fetishsizing that took place I asked the man if he loved these women, he said “Yea, I liked them,” to which I replied, “I have absolutely no doubt you liked them even lusted, but I know you did not love not one of them.” He shrugged and admitted he didn’t but there were no other options to leave the country. I asked him now that the locals do have a little more, not a lot more but slightly more options, why does it seem that the culture of sex tourism still flourishes? He said the women just keep coming. Other local men said the same. “

As Carla Guerrón Montero wrote in “Black is Not as Beautiful: Gender, Sexuality and Tourism in Panama, “Less common are romantic relations between Afro-Antillean women and white North American or European men. If the women develop steady family relationships with these men, and they stay in the Archipelago and provide for them or take them to their countries, people’s commentaries are less negative. However, women who engage in romantic relationships with transient tourists are criticized, particularly if children result from the affairs. Men and women view their relationships with tourists or resident expatriates differently: while men look for white women for entertainment, women look for white men to find a possible long-term partner (Brennan, 2004).”

The rotating blonds the local men kept were commonplace. The day one woman left on the ferry, another one replaced her on their moto. I wondered why it was mostly men who engaged in this, and it became apparent that it was more women who were coming to “vacation”.
Access to women that was formerly forbidden to men of color also plays a part, “with the onset of tourism, the steady presence of white women (and, more recently, white men) traveling or settling alone has generated transformations and new dynamics in personal relations and understandings of the body. There is a strong attraction toward whiteness in Bocas del Toro. The fascination includes the hope of maintaining transient adventures with Anglo-Saxons, but in some circumstances, the interest is in bearing mixed children. This attraction is assumed to be stronger than a person’s will, particularly in the case of men. According to Bryan Ramirez, a black man who works at the Bocas airport, “we now have access to white women. Our desire for them is so strong that if they sent us an army of white women [referring to the 1989 US invasion of Panama] there would be divorces all over the place.”

Dash Harris, Sex-ploitation in Latin America

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Getting caught being a bochinchosa

During my trip to Utila, one of the Bay Islands in Honduras, I went to one of the cayes for a reggae fest. Important to note the Bay Islands were first “owned” by the British so it was first English speaking then Spanish was forced upon the people to learn once Honduras took control. So most of the residents speak Spanish or know enough. And I mean, everyone. I was chatting with a 4 year old in Spanish and then she started speaking english the next 5 minutes. Insane.

So anyway.

I’m on the caye and this guy that I guess liked me went to the bar and I struck up a conversation with a guy from Spain about Barcelona and how I’m not a fan. The other guy then came back and the Spaniard asked me in Spanish “Is this your boyfriend, does he speak spanish too?”

and I said “NO! Absolutely not! He’s not my boyfriend, I just met him on the island.” (I was being a jerk and shading him a little)

And the the guy goes (in perfect spanish) Not yet! (in reference to him being my boyfriend)

My face: 0_0 

I had TOTALLY forgot Utilians knew Spanish.

Serves me right. 

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I need out of this country…

When I was in Triunfo de la cruz, a Garifuna village in Honduras, I was staying in a house on the beach. My host woke up to wash his clothes at 5am to hang it on the line. I ate mangoes and a noni for breakfast that we got from his friend’s trees in his yard. His friend, built his house himself, a small kitchen/couch area and his bedroom. He has  cocoa, mango, noni, and orange trees in his yard. He came to visit us one night and we asked him if he wanted some dinner he said he already ate at his grandma’s house but he’d take a little. I got reeeeeeeealll jealous for a sec. He has the freaking beach, trees, hammocks, his dogs, AND his extended family in walking distance of his home. I AM NOT LIVING MY LIFE RIGHT! I AM JUST NOT. Ask me how sad I was when I left that village. 

:-(  X 995089408495

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The three Lies of Utila

1. I’m leaving tomorrow
2. I’m not drinking tonight
3. I love you 

According to a local Utila stands for:


Unite 
This
Island
Lord
Almighty

He said “no natural disaster has ever hit the island, hurricanes and storms are stopped by the big island Roatan and by the mountains in La Ceiba, he says they just pass over the island.” He adds, “Utila is the best island, the kindest people, friendly.” 

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Hello Honduras!

Touched down in San Pedro Sula very early today. I spoke to the hostel owner, Juan Carlos about discovering the country and the history of the Garifuna. He grew very excited and told me all the places to hit and also gave me a book on the history. He also noted that Honduras take U.S. dollars, I asked why? He said because “Honduras is a colony of the U.S.” It proved true upon going to the mall, Aldo, Zara, Guess, KFC, Cinnabon, Church’s Chicken, Popeye’s, Dunkin Donuts, Baskin Robbins, Little Ceasar’s, Applebee’s, Wendy’s, Pizza Hut and even some stores named “American Company.” Very jarring. American imperialism, neo-colonialism alive and kickin’. Smh. 

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